"First, people keep telling us not to live in the past, to “get over it,” and so on. There is point in healing from a broken leg when one must discard crutches but to expect anyone to run on a broken leg when they r not ready in the healing process is both foolish and cruel. It will only worsen the injury. 


So it is with inner healing, but those who insist people should act as if they have never been wounded typically have the audacity to blame others when their foolish advice does not work."